Authenticity-focused coaching for people tired of performing a version of themselves that isn't quite them. Online, Norwich, and beyond.
Where are you with this?
Three honest doors. Pick the one that's true today — you can always come back through another.
The five-day challenge
One email a day, five days. Each one gives you a single task — five to fifteen minutes, pen and paper. By day five you'll have three dots on a page and a line through them.
People pay me to get to that shape. This week, it's yours for the cost of an email address. Day 0 arrives immediately.
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Already know you want the Breakthrough? Skip the challenge — book and pay now.
Find your shape
Three questions. Each answer places a dot. By the end you'll see the shape of support that fits — and when you book, I'll already understand where you're starting from.
1 · Where are you right now?
2 · What shape of support?
3 · How close do you want me?
Your dots, connected.
Exact numbers are agreed on the call — they depend on the tier you choose.
Already know you want the Breakthrough? No call needed — book and pay now.
You already know
Then I won't make you sit through a discovery call to prove it. A Breakthrough is three hours of the deepest single session I do — SAHARA for the structure, KIMBA where the body's holding it. You book, you pay, we work.
The Breakthrough
3 hours · one session
£497
One clear edge, taken seriously. Pay now — we'll schedule your time once payment is confirmed.
Not quite certain? The middle door is right there — a conversation costs nothing.
Does this sound like you?
"I deliver brilliantly. And I go home hollowed out."
"I speak up for everyone else. I silence myself."
"I've built a life that looks right. It doesn't feel like mine."
"I know what's wrong. I just can't seem to move it."
You're not broken. You're high-functioning — and you've made it work, at some cost. Therapy feels like too much. Self-help books aren't enough. You don't need fixing. You need someone to help you connect the dots you've been ignoring.
The work
Connect Your Dots is structured around two frameworks I built over years of working with people at the edge of who they think they are and who they actually are.
A 7-step authenticity process. The spine of the engagement. A path without predetermining the destination.
KIMBA
Kinesthetic Internal Memory Balancing Action
Parts-work for the deeper layer — where the body holds what the mind hasn't caught up with yet. Not always needed. Always available.
This isn't therapy. I'm clear on that boundary. It's structured coaching with a referral pathway for anything that needs clinical support.
How it works
1
Discovery call — no hard sellWe find out if it's the right fit. Either it is or it isn't. No pressure either way.
2
Intake — understand where you're starting fromA structured (not invasive) process to map the terrain before we start.
3
The work — ongoing support or a fixed-term programmeFrom a monthly thread of connection to a full transformation arc. SAHARA as the structure. KIMBA when the work calls for it.
4
Closing — integration, not graduationWhat's changed. What's next. How to keep reading yourself without me.
Where we work:
OnlineNorwich, in personWalk & talk, NorwichI'll travel for the right engagement
Dots other people have connected
This work has had different names over the years. The people it changed sound the same in every era.
"I had absolutely no idea that a video call with somebody I had never met before could be so powerful. Thank you so much for listening."
Mike · coaching client
"Incredibly valuable and comparable to traditional therapy, but much more accessible… I've seen my own energy shift, unlocking parts of me I packed away. It's a transformative experience."
Heather · first member, the Game of Authenticity
"A breath of fresh air — learning from a perspective that reconciles both the spiritual and materialistic world, that inspires creativity, compassion, and pragmatic values."
Shane · public recommendation
These are real people, quoted with their words from the years this work was called other names. The frameworks grew up; the effect didn't change.
Is this right for you?
This works best when you're:
Flexible — willing to be surprised by what comes up
Open to being challenged on the stories you tell about yourself
Comfortable with AI-supported delivery as part of the process
If you're in acute mental health crisis, I'll help you find the right support — but this isn't the right container for that. If you're in the quieter struggle, it probably is.